Published on January 12th, 2018 | by Darren Paltrowitz
0Author June Eding On Etiquette & Her New Book “Manners That Matter Most”
Simply put, etiquette is one of the most valuable assets a person can process. It helps a person present themselves in the best way possible, and ensures that someone deals with others in a direct and effective manner. Manners That Matter Most is a newly-released guide by June Eding — featuring a foreword by The Lawlor Group’s Norah Lawlor — which helps update proper etiquette into the 21st century. A popular title from Hatherleigh Press, the book is already into its third printing.
I had the pleasure of doing Q&A with Manners That Matter Most author June Eding about etiquette and what inspired her to write this practical collection. More on the book and its New York-based author can be found on the Hatherleigh Press website.
When did you first become interested in etiquette?
June Eding: I have always been inspired by etiquette, going back to early days with my family. A well-mannered approach in life is essential. Good manners provide a common ground of courtesy and respect that is timeless. I have witnessed the erosion of manners in casual American society, where other cultures nations have customs that always go back to basics with regard to etiquette, for example at the dinner table.
The way that a musician may have been inspired to start playing music because of The Beatles, is there a main etiquette influence on you?
June Eding: Well of course, the grand dame of manners, Emily Post. Naturally her classic guidance needs to be expanded for the digital age, with the smartphone taking over our lives. Keep thinking consideration, courtesy, respect.
What’s your biggest pet peeve in terms of etiquette? Is there one thing that is most important to you?
June Eding: Two things. For one, the lack of personal acknowledgment in small gestures. A simple “thank you” goes a long way. The other is consideration. Person to person and person to planet. Leave the situation better than you found it. Be a good steward of courtesy and respect.
Do you foresee etiquette changing and evolving?
June Eding: It will need to evolve to handle new technology for example. When to send a text, an e-card, a proper paper greeting. What to do with a cell phone at the dinner table, etc.
Have you ever had a disagreement with another etiquette expert?
June Eding: In Manners That Matter Most, I guide from timeless behavior, tastefully updated for modern times. These points of etiquette are indisputable.
This book aside, what is coming up for you?
June Eding: Modern Love Manners is a new project. In the wake of #MeToo, there is a need to redefine courtship and dating behaviors so that both parties are respected, appreciated, and romantic love can evolve naturally.
When not busy with work, how do you like to spend your free time?
June Eding: Travel, fine dining and classic cinema. Enjoy a gala now and then for fun, fashion and style.
Finally, June, any last words for the kids?
June Eding: The last words for the kids are to the parents. You need to take your children away from the technology and teach them to interact directly at home and in the world. Good social interaction is the essence of what defines us a being human. We all need to get along. Start early.
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