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The Infamous HER on “Born Outta Step”

While some artists squeeze themselves into molds—staying in one musical lane at the expense of their true creative expression—The Infamous HER does the exact opposite. Spearheaded by the endlessly captivating Monique Staffile, hailed for her powerhouse vocals, raspy bite, and don’t-mess-with-me persona, she invites listeners to “expect the unexpected,” always casting aside the conventions of the status quo and leaning into unpredictability whenever the music starts to feel too “normal.” As the project evolves, the sonic curiosity of her and her collaborators grows only more daring and difficult to pin down—evoking the glitter-soaked spectacle of glam, the angular earworms of new wave, the rebellious grit of punk, and the glossy immediacy of current pop.

Born of the brazen attitudes and busy streets of the Lower East Side underground, they gained momentum at an impressive pace, dazzling audiences with a dynamic stage presence and a knack for fluid magnetism. The last thing listeners expected was for them to pack up and leave the big city behind—but that’s exactly what they did, eventually uprooting their claim on the Big Apple to call Nashville home—taking their punk-country gusto with them. At the end of the day, The Infamous HER thrives wherever there’s room to innovate, and in true HER fashion, the move only sharpened their edge—opening the door to sonic territories beyond their wildest imagination.

Bolstered by a thick, concrete bassline, “Born Outta Step” is a supercharged anthem for the convivial folk who have trekked a different path—those with a “heart full of gold and a head full of ale,” eccentric, fierce, uber-expressive, and unapologetic. Tipsy on Guinness and Jameson on St. Patrick’s Day in Nashville, The Infamous HER couldn’t help but feel a radiating warmth for their offbeat friends—“all the freaks and misfits we love.” Perhaps that’s why it feels like this joyful ditty, cowritten spontaneously alongside drummer Tyler Kloewer and producer/accordion player Caleb KBC Sherman, could be (and maybe ought to be) a contemporary Irish drinking song passed down from one generation to the next: an accordion-driven rallying call to pull up a barstool, put down a coaster, and grab a pint with some close pals. Chanting the fiery, liberating refrain, they swagger like old drinking buddies, carrying a true tenderness for the “outcasts, rouges, and ravens” just like them—those who dare to be different, the fools and the dreamers who only know how to dance through the night.

It’s not difficult to imagine that parties thrown by The Infamous HER extend far beyond the caliber of a typical house party. Sure, there’s room for the expected gin-soaked jigs, overflowing solo cups, and speaker-rattling shenanigans. But this boisterous backyard bonanza is also an enclave for the many amazing, unconventional people in their lives—a space that welcomes the freest forms of expression. Everyone is encouraged to come as themselves, or anyone they wish. The only direction: “Be you.” Burlesque dancers shake their stuff for Pee-wee Herman, fire dancers spin their batons for Uncle Sam, and pretty much nothing is off the table. These bonded friends, “born outta step with the world,” have found rhythm in each other, with The Infamous HER setting the tempo. In their orbit, individuality becomes choreography, and every misfit finds their own step. Arm in arm, cups raised to the sky, the night rages on—and nothing else seems to matter.

How does “Born Outta Step” capture where you’re at right now as a project?

Born Outta Step captures where I was on Saint Pattys day 2025. Its a freeze in time of the moment writing it.

The song celebrates misfits without turning things heavy — why did joy feel like the right way to tell this story?

I wanted to create a song that had joy, happiness, and celebration. Cause you should celebrate being different and not like everyone else.

The accordion and bar-room groove give the track a timeless feel; how did that sound come together?

I’m obsessed with the accordion! Just ask my band, I want an accordion on every song. I think it’s such an underrated instrument, but it feels so happy. When my band and I were writing this song on Saint Patrick’s Day, we had joy and happiness in our hearts, and also our bodies were full of Guinness and Jameson, so the Accordion that was lying around got dusted off.

Your lyrics often feel tough but warm at the same time — how do you balance those sides of yourself?

I don’t balance it; I guess growing up in NYC made me a tough cookie, but warm at heart.

Collaboration played a big role in this track — what did working with Tyler and Caleb add to the process?

 We always write together. Tyler plays Drums in the band, and Caleb is the Producer/Accordion player. We have fun together andare constantly being creative.

As the project keeps growing, how do you protect the freedom that defines The Infamous HER?

I try not to listen to what other people say and think. I keep true to myself and do not try to conform to the standards of social media.

What do you want new listeners to understand about who you are — and what’s coming next?

For me, ya gotta expect the unexpected. I don’t understand rules, and never play by them. So if you’re like me, a rogue outcast raven, you’re VIP in my eyes. Let’s be friends.

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Dr. Jerry Doby

Dr. Jerry Doby, PhD, is Editor-in-Chief of The Hype Magazine, Recipient of The President's Lifetime Achievement Award, a Media and SEO Consultant, award-winning Journalist, and retired combat vet. . Member of the U.S. Department of Arts and Culture, the United States Press Agency and ForbesBLK.Connect with Dr. Doby across social media @jerrydoby_ or https://www.jerrydoby.com

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